What Women Really Want in a Casual Fling

Believe it or not, it’s totally possible to know what women want. No matter what she might be like otherwise, all women want the same three basic things from a casual fling. If you can hit the right notes during the rest of the night, you can make sure that she always sees you in the right light. She might not be able to verbalize what she wants to hear, but if you’re clear on your same points you’ll put her subconscious fears to rest and you’ll up the odds that you’re going home with her tonight.

To Know They’ll Be Respected

Face it: most men want to sleep with women casually, but all they do is talk trash about the women who let them. Women have to be really careful who they go home with. A single rude, ungrateful guy can really mess up her reputation. She just wants to have some fun, and you just want to have some fun. You should let her know that you’re not going to be the kind of guy who blabs her secrets all over. How can you do that besides promising that you’ll respect her in the morning? Watch the way you talk about other women in front of her. You can talk about easy women and your crazy ex in front of the boys, but when you’re trying to get with a woman all females are ladies. They’re saints to you. That’s the kind of talk that’s going to earn her trust and get her interest.

An Orgasm

“Women want to have an orgasm during sex”

To put it bluntly, women don’t date men they have reason to believe won’t be good in bed. This means that you always need to do reputation management when you hook up with someone. Word of mouth can go further than you’d think, so make sure that you’re going the extra mile in bed if you want a shot with any of her friends down the road. If you don’t think she’s finished, you’d better get creative. Women hookup for the same reasons that men do, and one of the big ones is wanting to have an orgasm. If she can’t even get that from you, you can bet that you’re going to get a negative review and lose any chance at being a fun booty call later.


“I’ll keep this relation discreet”

This goes hand in hand with respect, but it’s more specific. She has to know that you’re not going to tweet something like “Just had @HerHandle go down on me!!!” and things like that. She doesn’t want her business spread all over the internet. She wants to hookup with a guy so she can feel good. If she feels like you might not be able to keep your connect under your hat you can turn your back on ever getting in her pants. She has to feel a real connection. She has to have faith that she can trust you to have her back and not just throw her under the bus because you two got up to a little fun.


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