Your Shoes and What They Say to Women about You

Men in general tend not to place too much emphasis on how they dress because hey, in the grand scheme of things, is it really that important? Unfortunately for guys all over the world, women tend to be exactly the opposite. Have you ever taken the time to consider about how you dress affects the opinion of women you meet? And not only that, have you considered what women might think about your shoes? If this seems kind of trivial, you’d be right. Unfortunately, it’s also something women (for whatever reason) seem to evaluate. So if you’ve ever wondered what your shoes say about you, read on to find out.

Cross Trainers

"Wear your cross training sneakers only while working out"

“Wear your cross training sneakers only while working out”

What they say: that you’re an athletic kind of guy who’s not afraid to spend money on training shoes. However, this isn’t always a good thing, particularly if you wear them all the time. If that’s the case, women are going to wonder A) if you’ve got some kind of odd attachment to those shoes, B) if you can’t afford other shoes or C) if you’re trying to show off because you’re very athletic. Long story short: it’s okay to wear cross trainers, IF you’re actually doing something athletic. If you’re not and you keep showing up for romantic dinners wearing them, eventually she’s going to ask you why.


These kinds of shoes are comfortable and stylish. Unfortunately, they’re also largely associated with teenage boys. There comes a point in every man’s life where he needs to let the sneakers go (especially if he’s working an office job). If you refuse to let them reside in the past like most relics, be prepared to be perceived as an irresponsible guy who doesn’t want to age or let the past go. This will be more the case if said sneakers are dirty and worn out.


"Wearing sandals in the park is fine"

“Wearing sandals in the park is fine”

Like cross trainers, sandals are great in the appropriate setting. Wearing them on a hot day as you take a walk with your date through a fairground, for example, is acceptable. Wearing them to a wedding, on the other hand, is not. There’s nothing wrong with bearing your feet if the weather and the situation is right. Insisting on wearing them all the time is going to make you look like a hippy who has serious issues with socks.

Boat Shoes

If you want your appearance to scream that you were brought up preppy, by all means you should wear boat shoes. These are great if you’re looking into attracting preppy women. It’s not so great if you’re interested in other kinds of women, however. Dudes that wear boat shoes also tend to wear way too many accessories and wear expensive duds, however, so if you’re looking for a woman that’s interested in your money this is the way to go.

Dress Shoes

If you’re a snappy dresser, there’s nothing wrong with donning dress shoes every now and then. It’s a way of making a statement that you don’t mind classing yourself up every now and then. Wearing them when the situation doesn’t call for it, however, might make you look a little uptight and old-fashioned.


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